I love how in your “apology” you don’t actually say you did anything wrong. You didn’t say “I don’t think you’re a fucking loser” or “I shouldn’t have called you a fucking loser” or “I shouldn’t have said that in a place and time when your son could have heard it”. No… You just said that you know what you said stung. So magically, it really becomes my fault. It’s not a problem with what you said, it’s really my issue that I let stuff like that hurt me. Which is full-on bullshit.
In fact, you then went on to double-down on what you said by saying that you “want to keep your standards and lifestyle where it is”. Meaning… That you are high-and-mighty and I’m a fucking loser. It’s excuses and justifications. What you called me was justified because you’re trying to maintain your status and not be dragged down by me.
So, in the future please, just keep your “apologies” to yourself because they aren’t actually apologies. You never admit REAL fault. You always justify and make excuses.